What To Do?

When you think of an elegant wedding the first thing that comes to mind is not children, but let's face it not inviting children can be tricky and sometimes you just have to bite the bullet.  Luckily there are new trends that will keep the kids at your wedding occupied and your event as chic as you envisioned.

Many weddings have been creating kids rooms that can be separate from the main celebration.  Instead of beautiful orchids and tall candles at centerpieces, think floral inspired candy sculptures in your color scheme for the kids to enjoy.  Instead of a band playing all the hits from before the kids were even born you could have a game room filled with pin ball, Foosball and more. Or consider an arts and crafts table with crayons and markers, anything that will not stain, the last thing you need on your wedding is an extra bill because your nephew spilled oil paint on the 100 year old oriental rug.  Not only will the children stay busy but think of the adorable artwork they will produce that you could put in a scrapbook you can cherish forever.

We all know how picky children can be so a separate menu for them is an absolute must.  Considering most children are too young to appreciate fine service set up a buffet with sliders, hot dogs and truffle french fries.  While the kids will be happy about the food the adults will be even happier to discover this food as the late night menu following a long night of cocktails and dancing.

Don't forget, if having children at your wedding makes you nervous do not fell guilty for ultimately not inviting them.  Its definitely a decision every bride needs to make for herself and what she feels comfortable with.  Most parents will understand that children are not typically sophisticated enough for such an elaborate event.  And to be honest they would probably be happy to leave the kids home with a sitter that night.