We know that most wedding showers are typically thrown for the bride and to be exclusively attended by the bride's closest female friends and family, but we also realize it is 2012. Jack & Jill wedding showers are becoming a popular trend for the modern day couple. Here are some of our ideas for hosting a Jack & Jill showers and how to make it a little less girly and a lot more fun!
Although wedding showers and playing gimmicky games such as the notorious 'Toilet Paper Wedding Dress' often go hand in hand, we recommend saving these for another time. Most of the men at the party will not be amused and let's face it, we don't think a lot of the ladies will miss them either. If you simply cannot bear to host a shower without having some games we suggest creating a variation of "The Newlywed Game" filled with funny and embarrassing questions for the bride and groom to be and some of their already married or engaged friends.
As for the registry, think outside of the box for the Jack & Jill shower. You have plenty opportunity to get classic wedding gifts at both the wedding and engagement parties, so try and have a little fun when it comes to the shower. You could host a "Stock the Bar" themed shower where all the guests must bring a bottle of something you love or something to be used at the future couples bar, such as a martini shaker, decanter, etc. Just imagine all the fun you will have opening the uncommon shower gifts and the fun you will have enjoying them as well. Also, if the couple is into technology you can have a separate registry of just electronics that you may need. While receiving any gift is enjoyable, we think a shower of all digital presents would be so amazing!
The menu and bar are often the most important components to pulling off a successful event. We love the idea of opting for hearty appetizer choices such as sliders, truffle fries and pizzettes as opposed to tea sandwiches or dainty hors d'oeuvres. You may also want to consider a martini tasting for your guests. This could be a really fun way to try a multitude of cocktails you have never even heard of before. Everything from a classic dirty martini, to one of our favorites, the Saketini, or even opt for naming one after you and your fiance!
Please comment if you have any great ideas for a Jack & Jill shower or if you have attended any that really stood out to you!
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